This is beyond astrology, as your chart suggests problems on the love marriage front. I feel you need to be bold if you want love marriage. I mean there has to be some genuine reason for declining or not accepting the marriage. Just because the girl is 1 month elder is no reason from any where. These days girls are 3 – 4 years elder and getting married without any problems. As long as both partners have good compatibility , marriage works.
Blessings,
Navneet Khanna
Astrologer