Exactly what I saying, managing your life. That happens when you are have weak moon. Moon is debilitated when it is in Scorpio. Such native can be fickle minded, can also be negative, lack confidence in their own abilities. Not that they are not talented or qualified, but lack convincing abilities.
You fight your enemies you should strengthen your Moon. The first thing you do to defeat others is strengthen your mind and Moon represents the mind of an individual as per Vedic charts.