Dear Nim,
You are asking Question in Bits and pieces, and second is there is no birth details. Honestly I do not remember each and every chart I read. Therefore I do not even know what you are saying now. Except that you do not have a good Gun milan. Like I always say Gun milan is not complete Horoscope Matching. A Complete Horoscope matching includes Guna and Graha milan that is matching of the planets. The most important is the 7th house itself what the 7th house suggests and the karka. Is it strong, weak, afflicted, combust, debilitated. If the 7th house is strong and not afflicted and the Graha milan is also good then marriage can be done. You can do the remedies also if required.
You can know more about Guna and Graha milan by clicking on the link below. You can get yourself a 3-4 pages detailed analysis by paying online. This report is complete horoscope matching written by me discussing all dosha and giving you weak and good points.
https://astrologymag.com/guna-milan-during-horoscope-matching/
Blessings,
Navneet Khanna
Astrologer