Both charts are weak as they have lot of affliction on the 7th house which is the prime house of marriage. Your Guna milan is good , but there is Bhakoot dosha, another dosha which is generally ignored while doing marriage , which can bring disturbance in marital life.
Present period does not support reconciliation easily. I feel it is better if you both can sit down at some secluded place and decide if you want to keep the relationship or not. There is no point in keeping it hanging on in between. Every relationship has some problems, yours are more because of bad matching as suggested above. Still it is important to keep a positive frame of mind. Forget and Forgive is the best policy. If you both believe in that then certainly there can be some hope.