Purva my simple question to you is are you happy and content about the things that you mentioned above. I mean in terms of weight and knowing that you are fat. If not then you better do something about it. It is not primarily because of marriage but also because of your own self. You know that being overweight can lead to health problems and also its limits an individual in many ways. I know you are concerned and you better do something about it soon. Like they say better late than never.