Why? Are you dissatisfied living in Jammu, a beautiful place. What is your big objective in settling abroad. Obviously you think life abroad is like living in Heaven. As one who lived abroad for many years, let me tell you that life abroad is more deadly than living in your own country. And if you are destined to suffer, you will obviously go abroad and have a disastrous life there. And then you will think how nice to be back in your home town!!!