You may please read my blog navagrahastro.blogspot.in to get a good insight into astrology and its scope in life. You are under the misconception that Astrology can be used to name and identify your spouse which is not possible by anyone in this world. It all depends on horoscope compatibility to know something about the person and his nature. Most of the questions on this site are based on utter superstition and has nothing to do with astrology and some people are replying to it which tends to make them believe that superstitions are endorsed by God. Such astrologers are not members of our qualified astrologers and are just the general public who answers to some questions as if they are expert astrologers.