Placement of Moon is only one of the things which we look at while analysing compatibility between horoscopes. There are 8 other planets too all of which have to be considered while establishing marriage compatibility. Bhakut Dosha is only something about placement of Moon in the horoscopes which generally indicates only a small degree of mental compatibilities. Minor tiffs now and then are part of life and you should ignore it. If you have lived 4 years together, you could as well live for 40 years together. Bhakut Dosha is not going to hamper it. Read my articles http://navagrahastro.blogspot.in/ “Myths and misconceptions in Astrology”.
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