As Mars represent defense force, you have been told that your husband will be in defense. I will not comment on other persons view point and knowledge, however i believe that the profession of your spouse is seen from 10th from the 7th house which is ruled by Sun as Leo rashi or sign is there. Chances of arrange marriage are much stronger. Regarding your question if your partner will be richer than you. Well I can tell you that if you tell me know your account balance 😉
Blessings,
Navneet Khanna
Astrologer