Obviously your horoscopes would not be matching (which I am unable to check because you have not given the time of birth and place of birth) and that is what happens if you are not careful enough to check it properly. Generally either you will have to suffer lifelong or go in for a separation. There are no short cuts except that you could consult some marriage counsellors.
You can read my article “Marriage Failures – How Astrology can help” on my blog navagrahastro.blogspot.in