This is the problem usually created by not properly matching the horoscopes of the boy and girl. Now that the damage is done, you will have to find appropriate measures. Going abroad is not a solution. It is just one of the alternatives if you think so. Astrology does not endorse the word abroad since countries are man made for administrative conveniences. Read my blog Navagraha astrology Online which will help you in taking an appropriate decision after a scientific evaluation of your horoscope.