Hi,

Reposting my understanding of your query from the other thread. I had responded with the following…

Interesting indeed…please feel free to ignore anything that is not to your taste/liking and rest assured, I’m not being judgement of you. Instead, I’m merely highlighting my understanding of your birth-chart and planetary influences making you the way you are.

Given birth-details seem to place Ascendent or Udaya Lagna in the Zodiac sign of Cancer or Karkataka Rashi and Lagna Lord Moon/Chandra is placed in the 6th house of Roga-Sthana, with no support on either side of the flanks, making you also a loner with very few friends and limited social life – not to mention your own mood-swings.

You seem to have just started Maha-Dasha of Rahu placed alongside Ascendent or Udaya Lagna and 12th lord Mercury/Budha and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Ashlesha Nakshatra, ruled by Mercury/Budha. For the records, Rahu is not a benefic for the birth-chart and his association with Mercury/Budha is not preferred – no doubt you seem to be having crazy thoughts.

On my part, I’m inclined to think you are actually a step ahead of your husband, when it comes to  uncontrollable anger/temper issues. You are also a Mangalic with Yogakaraka Mars/Kuja placed in the 2nd house and in close conjunction with 7th lord Saturn/Shani-dev… inducing uncontrollable anger/temper to the extent of breaking/burning whatever you might have build with love and affection. It looks like you are more than a match for your husband (please realize he and your children are bearing with you… and you should be happy to have them as a family), when it comes to throwing tantrums and mood-swings… not to mention arguments and fights.

Given the situation, it would make sense for you to realize your own weakness, consider calming yourself by practicing Yogasana, Meditation and Pranayama….as also consider Sandhi-Shanti and Rahu-Shanti Homa/Havan (a fire ritual).  Further, it would be beneficial for you to consider change your mindset of blaming others and focus on bringing about positive changes in yourself. All said and done, I’m inclined to think you are very well headed towards separation… but for strong reasons for you to continue in the relationship (like family/societal influence, financial/emotional dependence and other such).

Husband Facing Job Stress, No Promotion, and Severe Anger Issues – Please help

Take care…