Looking at your birth chart, it is seen that you lack the confidence and maturity that is needed in a relationship that is why things do not go you plan. I guess that you take more responsibilities and take control of your life. You are an honest, nice person at heart. You do not wish ill of others. You are simple and straightforward. If you only be more social and also more responsible, you will have things going the way you want.
Blessings,
Navneet Khanna
Astrologer