Hi,
Your birth-details indeed place Moon/Chandra in Aquarius/Kumbha Rashi. So, you are in the midst of Sade-Sathi or Saturn/Shani-dev’s transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra. So, please do factor-in un-due stress/tension on an ill-placed Lagna Lord – Chandra in the 8th house (Ashtama-Chandra) of Randra-Sthana. Given the situation, it might not be a bad idea for you realize half (if not more) of problem is in your mind.
Secondly, Sun/Ravi the 2nd lord of Family Expansion and Wealth Accumulation seems to be placed alongside Udaya Lagna. He has below par Vimsopaka Bala (in Dasha Varga) and Mars/Kuja (a Yogakaraka) is placed in Badhaka-Sthana and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Kritika Nakshatra, ruled by Sun/Ravi… contributing to some weakness and delay. But then, I’m inclined to think it is not a case of denial. It would perhaps help if you are able to calm your mind, control your emotions, worry less and be a lot more patient.
Further, it would make sense to check your husband’s birth-chart for validating collective Karma. In the interim, it may not be a bad idea for you to consider chanting some simple mantras to appease Saturn/Shani-dev and chant Santana Gopala mantra.
Take care…