Hi,
By the way, you are in the midst of Rahu Maha-Dasha (as per Vimsottari Dasha system, lasting until 2033) and Antara of 7th lord of Kalathra-Sthana Mercury/Budha (placed in the 12th house of Foreign Land / Bed Pleasure etc.). Rahu is neither happy nor comfortable being placed in the 9th house of Dharma-Sthana and can be detrimental for related significance. To make things a bit more interesting, Rahu and Mercury/Budha participate in Sukshma Parivarthana, at Nakshatra level. This could be a reason why some knowledgeable folk might have indicated unsatisfactory relationship or time-period.
Take care…