Hi,
I’m not sure if you’ve had a chance to look-up and understand the updates I’ve shared in this thread. Anyways, I’m inclined to think there is also Pitru Dosha and it has affected multiple facets of our life. Kindly consider seeking help/guidance from experienced and knowledgeable folk for appropriate remedies.
Further, given that you are from Baniya community let me/us know if you and your family are open and flexible for an unconventional alliance (from prospective grooms from different socio-cultural and regional/linguistic background).
Take care…