Hi,
Below are a few observations of the birth-charts:
In the husband’s birth-chart:
1. Ascendent or Udaya Lagna is placed in the Zodiac sign of Virgo or Kanya Rashi, caught in the Rahu-Ketu axis. Lagna & 10th Lord Mercury/Budha is placed in the 12th house of Vyaya/Losses, closely conjunct 12th lord Sun/Ravi, Moon/Chandra and Saturn/Shani-dev… is not a good sign. For the records, Sun/Ravi is neither happy nor comfortable being placed in the 12th house and can be detrimental for related significance.
2. As called out earlier Moon/Chandra is placed in the 12th house, as is Lagna lord Mercury/Budha. They being caught between Saturn/Shani-dev and Sun/Ravi is not a good sign.
3. You are in the fag end of Rahu Maha-Dasha, ending by end of February 2025 (as per Vimsottari Dasha systeam)… who is placed close to Mrityu Bhaga and within the fatal Trimsamsa degrees. He has activated the 12th house and hence expenses/vyaya/losses. Subsequent Maha-Dasha is that of 4th & 7th lord Jupiter/Guru-dev. He is placed in the 10th house of Karma-Sthana (a Kendra and hence warranting the need for validating Kendradipathya Dosha). He has below par Vimsopaka Bala in Dasha Varga and being conjunct Mars/Kuja is not a good sign. The 12th house is directly or indirectly associated and has been active all along.
4. Upcoming time period… more specifically the upcoming transit of Saturn/Shani-dev in the 8th house from natal placement of Moon/Chandra and Ashtama-Shani is an indication of some stressful and favorable time (more so for spousal relationship).
5. For the records, Sun/Ravi, Moon/Chandra, Saturn/Shani-dev and Jupiter/Guru-dev have below par Vimsopaka Bala in Dasha Varga.
In the wife’s birth-chart:
1. Ascendent or Udaya Lagna is placed in the Zodiac sign of Sagittarius or Dhanur Rashi and Lagna Lord Jupiter/Guru-dev is placed in his Uccha-Sthana or sign of exaltation. This is usually an indication of the native being righteous in nature.
2. Moon/Chandra is placed in the Zodiac sign of Aquarius or Kumbha Rashi. So, she is in the midst of peak Sade-Sathi or transit of Saturn/Shani-dev across natal placement of Moon/Chandra. It is natural for her to be experiencing unwanted or undue stress/tension etc. On the sidelines, Moon/Chandra does not have much of support on either side… making her mind often wander. She probably has very few friends and limited social life.
3. She is currently in the midst of 7th & 10th lord Mercury/Budha Maha-Dasha (since 2017 – as per Vimsottari Dasha system). He is Vakra or Retrograde and placed very close to deep Gandanta degrees in the Lunar Constellation of Magha Nakshatra, ruled by Ketu… who is active, has a strong foot-print and undeniable influence on the native, making her a bit detached from materialistic or worldy ways. It is also an indication of the Husband having his own idiosyncrasies and being detached.
4. There seems to be a strong possibility and I’m inclined to think she fell in love and married.
5. It also looks like she is experiencing some challenges in her workplace or Karma-Sthana.
Given my understanding of the birth-charts and if I were to take the liberty, I’d suggest both of you to realize how the celestials are colluding to create an unfavorable situation to separate you. This is really the time for you to realize and help each other and not fight/argue. Further, I’d suggest that you (husband) simply hang-on to her (wife) and not think of separating from her (for your own good), although chances of separating seem to be very much there – more so in the next couple of years.
Take care…