Hi,
I’ve had a chance to cast your as well as your husband’s birth-charts. Both have a conjunction of Saturn/Shani-dev and Mars/Kuja placed right across from and aspecting Moon/Chandra…, indicating excess/overflowing energy and with limited or very little tolerance. It is very easy for both of you to get irritated/frustrated and vent out your feelings/anger/temper/emotions with each other… something I dread. There is no stopping either of you guys, whenever you get triggered or lose your cool/composure. You are perhaps able to bear with each other… anybody else would have given up long back. Anyways, I can probably go on and on…not the topic of interest or discussion here.
Looking at both your birth-charts, there is clear hints/indication of stress/tension and challenges in the immediate short/near term. But then, there seems to be a bit of a let-up or breather for you towards end of 2025 (for about a year) and likewise for your husband from early-mid of 2026 (for a couple of years).
As for the child, there are possibilities of developmental (both physical and mental ability) delays/challenges. Incidentally, afflictions to Moon/Chandra and Mars/Kuja being activated as the depositor of Maha-Dasha lord Venus/Shukra and his aspect on Udaya Lagna or Ascendent could be contributing to some of your observations. In any case, it is best for you to proactively seek help and guidance from qualified medical professionals, while seeking help/guidance from other well-meaning folk.
On my part, I’m still hopeful… but do not prefer to give you a false sense of hope. Hence, the call for action.
Take care…