Hi,
I’m not really bit proponent of gems. But then, in your case, it would perhaps make sense for you to consider wearing a Perl to address Ashtama Chndra or Moon/Chandra being precariously placed in the 8th house of Randra-Sthana, where he is neither comfortable nor happy and can be detrimental for related significance.
Incidentally, you are in the midst of Uccha or exalted Jupiter/Guru’dev’s Maha-Dasha (as per Vimsottari Dasha system) placed in the 10th house of Karma-Sthana. Given that he rules the 3rd & 6th houses, he is not a functional benefic for the birth-chart. To make things more interesting, he is way too close to Badha-Karaka Sun/Ravi for comfort. In fact, he seems to have been torched by Sun/Ravi for being in close proximity. Further, he is placed very close to Mrityu Bhaga and within the fatal Trimsamsa degrees. So, it would make sense for you to consider propitiating him. He has activated his Rashi depositor Moon/Chandra as also Nakshatra depositor Mercury/Budha (who rules the 9th & 12th houses) and hence your experiences.
Take care…