Hi,
In other words, things would have been a lot different – a long time back, if either one were not aggressive and did not have the ability to give back as much as they could have taken. So, I’m inclined to think the situation will continue and slowly reduce as they run out of steam – with age and maturity. But that’s naturally the way they are… each of them (as also you guys) needs to understand and accept the other the way they are.
Take care…