Hi,
There you go… you have ego issues, over and beyond whatever has been shared. Just so you are aware, birth-time is critical for a complete assessment of birth-chart. Anyways, your husband seems to be at the peak of his Sade-Sathi or Saturn/Shani-dev’s transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra and he is experiencing unwanted stress/tension. In fact, Moon/Chandra in his birth-chart also seems to be adrift in the middle of nowhere, without any support on either side of flanks…bit more of an acute case. He also seems to be a lonesome person with very few friends and limited social life, with oscillating mind/mood.
Further, he seems to be in the last phase of Mercury/Budha Maha-Dasha, while in the midst of Saturn/Shani-dev’s Antara. In my personal opinion, you may want to reconsider your position and try to work things out. If not, (to me) it looks like you’ll repent/regret your decision or lack of proactive initiatives later on. Please be mindful you’ll start your Sade-Sathi phase soon after he is done with his.
Take care…