Hi,
I’m following a general etiquette on a public internet platform by addressing you as a lady…so, naturally, I’d address him as a gentleman. Shouldn’t I? Please do not read too much into it…
From your birth-chart, the 7th lord Mars/Kuja (also happens to be the 12th lord of Vyaya/Losses) is placed in his Neecha-Sthana… although there is some cancellation. He seems to be generally detached of worldly things, does not seem to have good relationship with siblings.
Take care…