Hi,
Indications of love marriage can be observed in the birth-chart. In my humble opinion, uncontrollable anger/temper is your worst enemy – realizing, toning down (maturity and understanding will come only with life’s hard lessons, with age / experience) and accepting each other for the way you are will help.
Given the situation, it would perhaps make sense for both of you (if really interested in bringing about some positive changes in your marital lives/relationship) to consider offering special prayers regularly to Lord Ganesha and chant Uma Maheshwara Stotra with unwavering faith, bhakti and a strong Sankalpa.
Take care…