Hi,
The delay is obvious – so, let’s not dwell on that part. I can understand and relate to your query and your confused state (telling your parents that you are not interested in getting married and then longing for a life partner) …but then it would make sense for you to be very clear of your position (along with strong reasoning for why you want to get married, your health, physical abilities, looks etc.) about getting married or remaining unmarried.
As things currently stand, the close conjunction of current Maha-Dasha lord Ketu and 7th & 12th lord Venus/Shukra does not really bode well. It’s an indication of detachment and limited urge for physical intimacy. In my humble opinion, you are currently dealing with one set of challenges and if you do get married, I think the challenges will continue to exist… just hat it will be a bit different. If truly interested in getting married, kindly consider propitiating Ketu by way of offering special prayers to Lord Ganesha, with unwavering faith, bhakti/devotion and a strong Sankalpa.
Take care…