Based on the birth details you have shared, your Ascendant (Lagna) is Scorpio, and at present you are running Jupiter Mahadasha with Saturn Antardasha. According to your birth chart, this is not one of the more supportive planetary periods, which explains why you may be experiencing prolonged stress and responsibilities.
Jupiter, although a naturally benefic planet, is debilitated in your Navamsa (D9) chart. This weakens its ability to deliver its full positive results during its Mahadasha, particularly in matters related to peace of mind, family happiness, guidance, and financial stability. The ongoing Saturn Antardasha further increases responsibilities, delays, and mental burdens. Saturn often teaches patience through difficult circumstances, especially when it is not strongly placed in the horoscope.
From what you have described, you are carrying the responsibility of managing the household finances while worrying about your husband after his retirement and the future of your son and daughter. It is understandable that these concerns have affected your mental peace. Your arthritis and ongoing health issues also add to the physical and emotional strain.
Astrologically, the current period indicates that progress may come slowly rather than suddenly. Your children’s settlement is likely to improve with time, but patience will be required. Avoid assuming that the present situation will continue indefinitely, as planetary periods change and circumstances also evolve.
I would suggest you perform remedies for both Jupiter and Saturn, as these are the key planets influencing your current Mahadasha and Antardasha. Astrological remedies done on Thursdays and Saturdays will help you a lot during this period.
Blessings,
Navneet Khanna
Astrologer