Hi,
It has been some time and so, I was left wondering why your birth-chart seemed familiar. As you might be aware, I’ve called out my observations previously. It is not just that you are bearing with everything and managed to salvage your relationship. Please be informed that you are quite capable of giving as much as you take and hence your marriage as sustained – both of you are strong Mangaliks and have Kuja Dosha. Hence, the anger and challenges with regards to family expansion.
That said, one also needs to factor in the concept of “Desha-Kaala-Patra”… and based on my understanding of your birth-chart, your side of the family is not in the same class or status of your in-laws and hence limited motivation for to you to break the marriage. So, I’m inclined to think you are hanging-on to whatever seems to be a better option – that of bearing with the current situation. On my part, I had previously hesitated to call our specifics… for I know your husband and in-laws seem to frequent this forum.
As for your query about child, please let me/us know if you guys have gotten a through medical test done. If yes, what are the findings. If not, kindly do the same at the earliest. Given my understanding, there does seem to be a need for medical intervention – parental pleasures are promised but delayed. So, hospital visits and related expenses seem to be on the horizon.
Take care…