Hi,
You (Male) are going through Maha-Dasha of 7th & 10th (two Kendra houses) lord Jupiter/Guru-dev. He is placed in alongside Udaya Lagna in Mithuna/Gemini Rashi. He is a benefic… but contributes Kendradipathya Dosha – a case of to too much of too good, not being good. To make matters worse, Jupiter/Guru-dev is posited in the Lunar Constellation of Ardra Nakshatra, activating it’s lord Rahu… placed in the 8th house of Randra-Sthana.
Your wife is in the midst of her Saturn/Shani-dev’s Maha-Dasha. In her birth-chart, he is placed in the 7th house of Kalathra-Sthana (spousal relationship) and rules the 8th house of Randra-Sthana. Naturally, she is going through some trying/testing times. More importantly, both Udaya Lagna and 2nd lord Moon/Chandra placed alongside are caught between two hardcore malefics, creating a strong Papakartari Yoga. So, I’m inclined to think she is not strong mentally.
On the sidelines, she probably had a tough couple of year with Ashtama-Shani
– during the CoVID pandemic. So, she is probably not able to cope up with whatever has been going on in her life. Hope it is nothing to do with her parents and/or other loved ones.
In summary, it looks like you guys are going through some challenging times/period. It would help if you could provide some background and help set the context.
Take care…