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Our Horoscope do not match Can we marry?

Marriage is one of the most significant milestones in an individual’s life, and in Vedic astrology, Kundali matching (Horoscope Matching) plays a crucial role in ensuring a harmonious and prosperous married life. However, many people wonder whether it is possible to marry without matching horoscopes and if such a marriage can be successful. In this article, I will explore the importance of Kundali matching, its alternatives, and whether marriages without horoscope matching can be successful.

What is Horoscope Matching in Vedic Astrology?

Horoscope matching, also known as Kundali Milan, is a process in which the birth charts of the prospective bride and groom are compared to analyze compatibility. This process helps in determining factors such as:

Guna Milan (Ashta Koota Matching) – 36-point system to evaluate compatibility.
Mangal Dosha Check – The Presence of Mars and its effects on married life.
Navamsa Chart Analysis – Study of the 9th divisional chart also known as D9 chart to check marital happiness.
Planetary Combinations – Examining the influence of Jupiter (Guru), Venus (Shukra), and the 7th house and 7th lord in both charts.

These aspects provide insights into emotional compatibility, financial stability, progeny, and overall marital harmony.

 

Can a Marriage Work if our kundli do not match?

While horoscope matching is a recommended practice in Vedic astrology, it is not an absolute necessity for a successful marriage. Many couples marry based on love, mutual understanding, and shared values rather than astrological compatibility. Below are some considerations for those who wish to marry without matching horoscopes:

The Role of Karma in Marriage
According to Vedic astrology, marriage is a karmic bond between two souls. Horoscope matching is a tool to understand the karma two individuals share. However, free will and personal efforts also shape a marriage. If both partners are willing to put in effort, a marriage can be successful even without Kundali matching.

Importance of Personal Compatibility
Instead of relying entirely on astrology, understanding personalities, values, and communication styles is crucial. Couples who respect and support each other emotionally and mentally can overcome challenges, even if their horoscopes do not match perfectly.

Strengthening Marriage Through Remedies
If horoscopes do not match but both individuals are committed to each other, astrological remedies can help reduce potential doshas or malefic planetary influences. Some common remedies include:

Worshipping Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati for marital harmony.
Wearing gemstones prescribed by an astrologer.
Observing fasts and performing pujas to strengthen the planetary influences.

When Horoscope Matching Becomes Necessary?
While many marriages succeed without horoscope matching, there are certain cases where astrological analysis is highly recommended:

Presence of Mangal Dosha
If either partner has Mangal Dosha (Kuja Dosha), it can create issues in marriage, such as frequent conflicts, health problems, or financial instability.
Remedies like Kumbh Vivah (marrying a peepal tree first) or worshipping Lord Hanuman can reduce its effects.

Weak Venus or Jupiter in the Horoscope
Venus represents love and relationships, while Jupiter signifies wisdom and blessings in marriage.
If these planets are weak in either chart, marriage-related issues may arise.
Strengthening them through mantras or donations can help.

If Both Horoscopes Indicate Separation or Divorce
Some horoscopes indicate relationship instability or separation due to planetary afflictions.
If both charts show strong indications of divorce, caution should be taken before proceeding with marriage.

Vedic Astrology vs. Modern Perspective on Marriage
In traditional Hindu culture, horoscope matching was given immense importance because marriage was seen as a spiritual and social union. However, modern relationships are based on personal choice, love, and emotional compatibility rather than purely astrological considerations.

Arguments Supporting Horoscope Matching:

It provides an astro-psychological insight into compatibility.
Helps in understanding potential challenges and solutions in marriage.
Ensures harmonious planetary influence, reducing marital stress.

Should You Marry if your horoscope do not match?

Well, my take is that Horoscope matching provides you with a deep insight into your relationship. It helps you understand your marital life ahead and also tells you the strength and weakness in your relationship. Knowing the challenges that are ahead of you, help you to work on the solution. By doing the appropriate remedies you can only resolve these challenges.

 

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