Hi,
Please bear with me and feel free to ignore anything that is not to your taste or liking… or seek as many alternate opinions from other knowledgeable folk, to satisfy yourself.
Given birth-details place Udaya Lagna or Ascendent in the Zodiac sign of Virgo or Kanya Rashi. Moon/Chandra is placed in the 2nd house of Family Expansion and loosely conjunct a powerfully placed Saturn/Shani-dev (who is placed in his Uccha-Sthana or sign of exaltation)… who further aspects 4th & 7th lord Jupiter/Guru-dev and Venus/Shukra placed in the 4th house, contributing to the delays (which is quite evident).
Further, Jupiter/Guru-dev rules two Kendra houses and is placed in one of them – the 4th house of Homely Comforts, calling for validation of Kendradipathya Dosha – as they say, too much of good is also not really good. On the sidelines, Saturn/Shani-dev, Mars/Kuja, Jupiter/Guru-dev, Rahu-Ketu are all powerfully placed and not all are benefic. Further, Rahu is not really comfortable or happy being placed in the 9th house of Dharma/Bhagya-Sthana and will be detrimental for related significance.
All said and done, you have limited Yogas for marriage. Hence, it is natural for analytical minded and logical thinking folk to encourage you (and your family/well-wishers) in having reasonable expectations, be flexible/open minded and be considerate of unconventional (religion, region, caste, community, widower, divorcee, socio-economic background etc.) alliances… more so since you are also well past what is considered as regular age for marriage… and the number of good/decent matches would naturally have dwindled down considerably. Hope you’ll now understand why you guys should not be fixated on regular/conventional options… specially if you are really desiring of getting married.
You are currently in the midst of Saturn/Shani-dev’s Maha-Dasha and will soon be starting Antara of Ketu (from April 2024, as per Vimsottari Dasha system). So, please make consorted efforts for slightly better/potential time-period starts thereafter.
Take care…