Hi,
I’m glad you understand and accept you’ve crossed the age for regular or normal conventional marriage – but it does not necessarily mean you (or your family) should only look at/for divorcees, widowers, handicapped etc. My suggestion would be for you guys to be reasonable in your expectations (a bit realistic as well), open minded and flexible in your approach.
That said I’d also like to reiterate the importance of various aspects of Astrology, we conveniently – as also repeatedly seem to ignore in the current age and time. Concepts and guidance related to meeting the querant in person, time of meeting (in terms of auspiciousness), associated Nimithas or Shakunas, the importance or significance of the concept of Desha-Kaala-Patra and the role they play in unfolding of Karma in the native’s life etc.
In a virtual platform like here (which is not even a full-fledged forum, with authenticated users/data, qualitative information etc.), I’m sure you’ll understand associated limitations… which would prove to be a significant or appreciable handicap for most of us – lesser mortals, to make a full-fledged or deep assessment. Given that I/we do not have much of an insight into your personal/family background, we may not be able to help or guide you (or others like you) beyond a certain point.
Further, making a clear assessment over a virtual or internet forum is not really preferred (perhaps elevated souls can) for assessing certain sensitive aspects of ones life. Ideally, it is better done in person, after assessing related information with respect to Desha-Kaala-Patra (including various aspects about yourself, your family, your educational background, profession etc.) – not to mention Nimithas or Shakuna etc.
That said, I’m inclined to think there is a small window of opportunity brewing – although the situation could easily tend towards denial, if concerted/focused efforts are not made or if you and your family give up on topic.
Take care…