Hi,
All I had sought was some general/generic background information about the gentleman and his family. If need be, a little bit about his nature, character, attitude, habits etc. can be ascertained about anybody, by enquiring about family and from friends.
On my part, I’m inclined to think there will be something unconventional about his marriage… which is already the case due to delay. Other than that, he might have some fascination/taste for something different.
Anyways, whatever I’ve called out is an affliction associated with Moon/Chandra and an insight into his mind/thinking. His way of thinking or how he perceives is different from that of you or for that matter many others. This has nothing to do with his lifespan.
If you are acceptive of the above, I think it would make sense for you to go ahead and consider this alliance, if you are truly desiring of marriage… assuming all other parameters match your expectation.
Take care…