Hi,
Very interesting combination of birth-charts or Horoscopes – assuming birth-details are accurate.
In his case, Udaya Lagna or Ascendent seems to be placed in the Zodiac sign of Libra or Tula Rashi, with Lagna Lord being placed in the 10th house of Karma-Sthana. He has a conglomeration of planets in the 9th house of Bhagya-Sthana in the Zodiac sign of Gemini or Mithuna Rashi – caught in the Ketu-Rahu axis.
You see most of the planets are in 6-8 houses from each other. Hope you are not looking for me to tell you how different you guys (you and your spouse) are from a personality, ideology and characteristics perspective… or how life might have changed for you, after getting married.
All said and done, I think there are some Doshas as reflected from your birth-charts… like for instance, Gow (Cow) or Brahmana (Brahmin) Hatya Dosha in your birth-chart, Pitru Dosha in your spouse’s or his susceptibility for Evil Eyes or Kaali Nazar etc. So, I’m forced to wonder if these might be negating some of the other good/decent Yogas. Please consider getting these things validated and if true, it might not be a bad idea for you to seek some simple and easy Vedic/Dharmic remedies done.
Take care…