Why marriages end in divorce – Common Reasons for Separation

Why marriages end in divorce – Common Reasons for Separation

Marriage is a scared bonding yet at times things go so bad in a relationship that the couple have no other means except to go in for a divorce. It is emotionally shattering for all those who are involved including the children.  Horoscope can suggest a good and compatible match,  It can also indicate divorce in ones life. Here in this article I have tried to do a brief analysis along with a birth chart as why marriages end in divorce for readers to understand how planets influence divorce in the horoscope.

The 2nd house represents Kutumba(family) and the 4th house signifies domestic peace and happiness.  The 7th house represents spouse, marriage and marital life. 11th house rules the success of marriage and 12th house is the indicating bed pleasures of the couple. Venus is the karka or significator for marriage along with the above houses and their lords play a very important role and marriage and married life.

When any of the above houses or their lords are afflicted by malefic, then unhappiness is certain to arise due to the causes ruled by that house or the afflicting planet. Also when the 7th lord is retrograde married life suffers due to insensitive and uncaring behavior of the married partner.

Venus is the karka for marriage in a male horoscope and Jupiter is the karka for husband in a female horoscope. When the 7th house and their lords and karka planet of marriage are weak and afflicted, conjoined or aspected by malefic planets they bring unhappiness in married life.

Sun, Saturn, Rahu, Mars and the 12th house lord are known as the separative planets. If two or more of the above mentioned planets influence the 4th house and its lord, one will find less of family comforts and happiness in family life. If they influence the 7th house and 7th lord, one gets separated from his spouse. The strong malefic influence on the 7th house its lord and significator indicates divorce.

Some combination for divorce or separation in the birth chart are given below:

  1. Jupiter in 7th house generally brings very unsatisfactory results. It causes great disappointments and dissatisfaction in married life. It also causes undue delay in marriage. Although Jupiter is not a malefic yet its position in the 7th house can influence marriages to end in divorce.
  2. When 7th lord is in 6th and afflicted by malefic influence. Similarly when 7th lord or significator joins the 6th lord and influenced by malefic.
  3. As 6th house denotes legal disputes and conjunction of 6th with 7th lord will result in legal action that is through courts.
  4. When Rahu, Saturn joins Lagna or the Ascendant, one is likely to face conflicts in marital life and separation is much indicated.
  5. Sun and Mars is in 2nd, 7th or 8th house, it entails disharmony in marital life and very string chances of separation.
  6. When lord of 2nd and 7th are in Nakshtras of malefic, particularly in the Nakshatra of 6th lord, there will be litigation, divorce between the couple.

Looking at the Time when Marriage can possibly end in Divorce. 

The time of divorce can depend upon the lord of the 7th house. Generally other factors like the level of influence of malefics in birth and transit should also be considered along with below given points.

If the lord of the 7th house is  Mercury then divorce will be in early marriage only.

If the lord of the 7th house is Mars then divorce will be in 2 years after marriage

If lord of the 7th house is Venus then 4 years after marriage

If lord of the 7th house is Moon then separation will be after 6 years after marriage

If Jupiter is the lord of the 7th house then 8 years after marriage

If sun then 10 Years after marriage

If Saturn then after 12 years of marriage.

why marriages end in divorce

Date of Birth: 12 Jan 1985
Time: 19:46
Place: Delhi

Birth Chart Analysis of a Female whose Marriage ended in Divorce:

As we can see in above chart that Capricorn sign is there in the 7th house of marriage. Its lord Saturn is the 8th house lord and most malefic planet in the horoscope. Jupiter  the karka for husband is debilitated in the 7th house. Rahu posited in the 11th house aspects the 7th house. Saturn the lord of 7th house along with being a strong malefic in the birth chart is also conjoined with Ketu, another malefic. Venus the karka for marriage is posited in the 8th house. As we can see that the 7th house and its lord are full of affliction and the significators or karka is also placed in the malefic house. The native never enjoyed marital happiness. The native had love marriage but it did not work and it eventually ended in divorce.

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39 thoughts on “Why marriages end in divorce – Common Reasons for Separation

  1. My name is Gayatri Verma. DOB 24-04-1984. Place of birth Delhi.Time of Birth 4-05 am.My husband name Suraj.. DOB 01-06-1983.Marriage date 20-01-2016. As per the present situation, will i get divorce.when the divorce will happen. After divorce when the remarriage will take place . Wheather remarriage will be successful.

  2. sir,will my marriage end in divorce or is there a chances of reconciliation,dob-01/08/87,place-bargarh,odisha,time of birth-2:30am.plz reply sir

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  4. My friend deatils as mentioned below. Plz confirm is divorce mentioned in his kundli ? If yes then when ?
    Jitesh jain
    Dob 15/11/1980
    time .11.05am
    Place : goregaon, mumbai

    1. His individual horoscope indicate strong possibility of arrange marriage. The possibility of divorce is not there. His wife horoscope should also be read, because if the horoscope of wife is weak then possibility of separation always remains.

      Blessings,

      Navneet Khanna
      Astrologer

  5. I’m Tripti Deborah Able
    DOB- 03-06-1990
    TIME- 12:48 PM
    PLACE- LUCKNOW
    IM MARRIED AND PRESENTLY SEPARATED FROM MY HUSBAND.
    PLZ LET ME KNOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN NEXT.
    WILL I REUNITE OR NOT

    1. I’m Tripti Deborah Able
      DOB- 03-06-1990
      TIME- 12:48 PM
      PLACE- LUCKNOW
      IM MARRIED AND PRESENTLY SEPARATED FROM MY HUSBAND.
      PLZ LET ME KNOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN NEXT.
      WILL I REUNITE OR NOT

    2. Looking at your horoscope we see the transit and Rahu – Ketu axis is on the 7th house which is never good. The possibility of separation is there in your horoscope. It is better to adjust and solve all issues amicably else separation cannot be ruled out after April 2018.

      Blessings,

      Navneet Khanna
      Astrologer

      1. Can u post your marriage date ?,I am a research student of astrology. U can watsup me at +65 85111635.

  6. mitali rastogi
    june 2,2017 at 3:33pm

    I’m mitali rastiogi
    DOB-26-01-1994
    TIME- 06:30 am
    PLACE-tilhar

    sir i want to know that how long will it take to cure my anxiety and deppression.nd plzz aslso tell me that which carrer is best suited for me as presently my studies is interupted plzz guide me sir for this

    1. First of all you are very sensitive and emotional, which is never good. You need to learn to be carefree and bindas. Your horoscope indicate your enormous capabilities but you do leave things in between which is never good. First dont be hyper at small things. Saturn mahadasha is going on you will get your results but after lot of hard work and efforts. Keep fast on Mondays. Visit Shiv temple every Mondays.

      Blessings,

      Navneet Khanna
      Astrologer

  7. Hi sir,I want to know when I will get married.my date of birth is 30 April 198,.Time : 4 am, Place : lucknow.

      1. Hi sir,I want to know when I will get married.my date of birth is 30 April 1983,.Time : 4 am, Place : lucknow.

  8. Hello sir
    I was married on April16 2017, but me and my husband both are not happy. We always end up fighting. I always feel that I’ve taken the wrong decision. Please help.whether this marriage will sustain or not?
    Amandeep kaur 20.03.89
    6.50 pm, ambala( haryana)

    Amrinder singh 19-08-89
    10.10 pm, Chandigarh.

    1. We will have to check your horoscope matching in detail which will have to be a Paid consultation. Read my blog navagrahastro.blogspot.in

  9. My DOB: 6th June 1982, Time : 5:30 pm, place Mumbai

    My wife DOB: 19th March, Time :11:30 AM , place ; Mumbai

    Not a good relationship. I got married on December 2016.
    I need Divorce. I can’t stay here.

    1. Hi ,
      I am an research student on astrology . I have been analysising your chart ., so as to why you are not happy with your marriage . U can reach me as +65 85111635 .( Singapore) . My name is subhashini Sriram . U can reach me at watsup

  10. Hello Sir,
    Love Marriage in trouble. Been married for 5yrs and have a baby girl who is 1yr old. Staying away from husband since birth of baby. Husband does not want to do job instead wantsto do business which also not working. Husband has lots of negative thoughts about me. Plz let me know if separation is the answer or there is some solution to save this marriage
    Rahul 13/10/1975 at 1.20 pm in a kola maharashtra.
    Pranitha 25/3/1981 at 7.00pm in kannur kerala.

    Pls I need some guidance as I have a baby girl whose life is also linked with me now.

  11. According to my birth details will i get divorced or there gonna be patch up. I personally want patch up. Bushra Akbar January 22 1988. Lahore, Pakistan

  12. What’s up,I check your blogs named “Why marriages end in divorce – Birth chart analysis” like every week.Your humoristic style is witty, keep up the good work! And you can look our website about powerful love spells.

  13. sir one of my sister s daughter got married and now she wants divorce…and somebody told me that her second marrige will be in lower caste..so pl guide me…her birth date is 24-4-1994..birth time is 10.40 p. in ahmedabad

    1. Marriage possibility can me check via dasha and Anatar Dasha,Forthis First analyized your Kundli’s mahadasha and Antar Dasha.
      Mahadasha is capable of creating yogas or doshas and can alter the effects of the transit planets. If a person want to attain wealth, success or popularity, Job,marriage, mahadasha need to support them.
      Also check out your kundli yog.There are many online s/w or website,from where you can generate your Yog’s and Maha dasha report.

    2. Hi, I am a research student of astrology . U CAN REACH ME AT +65 85111635 . , Singapore . There is no fees involved .

    1. Hi, I am an research student on astrology . U can reach me at +65 85111635 . Singapore . Can u tell me the date of marriage ?

  14. Hello sir
    Will I be happily married with a handsome( like John Abraham) and rich husband
    My date of birth is 7th August 1998, 21:15, fatehgarh Uttar Pradesh

  15. Hello sir,

    Date of birth : 27 -7 -1972
    Time : 8 :11:00 a.m,
    Place : Dandeli ( karnataka)

    Sir he is not getting job from last 3 years, he is having frequent health problems, when will he get a job ? (earlier he was working in manmaar and dubai) now will he get a job in India or in abroad

    sir please suggest remedy

  16. Hello sir

    date of birth: 2nd july 1991
    time of birth: 11.15 pm
    place of birth : kota

    Sir i want a new job but m not getting job. Please tell me when i will get a job.

    1. Astrology cannot be used to chart out your chronological job history in your life. We can only evaluate the success factor of your career house and house of gains for which you will have to come through for a scientific evaluation of your horoscope after reading my blog navagrahastro.blogspot.in

  17. Hello Sir, I would like to know about the matching
    Girls details: 06/feb/1987, 1:11 pm, salem, tamilnadu
    Boys details: 10/dec/1990, 7.30 am, salem, tamilnadu
    Please advice, as some say we have rajju (uthara).
    Looking for your response.
    Thank you.

    1. Read my blog navagrahastro.blogspot.in where in you will find a scientific method of matching of horoscopes. If you are interested you can come through Paid Consultation.

  18. Hello sir my dob : 4-11-1990 , time: 2.10am
    My husband : 4-11-1986, time:5:00am
    Sir we are living separately for the past 7months. May I have the chances of divorce.. And whether I have 2nd marriage in my kundali.. I plz sir waiting for ur response. I thanks in advance..

    1. We are running this site for getting people married after proper matching of horoscopes and lead a successful life. Not for separating couples who are married and make it a habit of in their life.

    2. Hi , I am a reserch student of astrology . Can u post your marriage date ? U can reach me at +65 85111635 . Singapore .

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