Thanks for posting your question on AstrologyMag.com , and a big thanks for sharing your picture. And I think that you both make a wonderful couple. I wish and pray that God Almighty help you during this difficult period of your life and see you both happy always.
Regarding your question – why I choose the November 02, 2014 date. Well presently Saturn is in Libra which is your 5th house of romance and Saturn is the planet of hindrance and obstructions, it moving in to Scorpio will remove the malefic from the 5th house. Actually if you look at the Transit or Gochar these days. You have two malefics in Libra, one is Saturn which is not that bad because Saturn is exalted in Libra. The other is Mars. Saturn and Mars combination is not good as where ever they are placed there will be problems. So probably your love relations started have disturbance when Saturn and Mars conjoined in the Libra sign, maybe around a 5 – 6 weeks back.