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February 8, 2024 at 5:35 pm #139213KalyaniGuest
Hello all…. My name is kalyani….My DOB is 1/11/1985 5:55pm Vijayawada. My life is full of missed opportunities and struggles. My Shani Mahadasa is going to start and it’s making me very nervous. I have faced so many problems in my childhood and now Iam afraid what will happen to my kids. I heard that our sani dada will have an impact on kids life and well being. I don’t want them to face the insults, rejections and problems I faced as kid. Iam scared. Somebody please look into it and help me.
February 9, 2024 at 6:01 am #139227BuddyGuest
It would be nice if you could kindly provide some background, to set the context. You could do so by sharing some information about your father/family etc.
February 13, 2024 at 2:41 am #139436KalyaniGuest
Sorry for the late reply.
First of all .. Thankyou Buddy for replying. Lost father at 13 years( they it was not accident but suicide).Father was a drunkard, abusive towards mother, emotionally distant and neglected me and my brother. No good memories with him. Mother was the only emotionally physically available parent through out our lives. Constant fights . I still remember running after my mother crying and requesting her to refrain from killing herself. No respect from either side of family .
Studied very hard and cracked one of the top level entrance exam of India only to realize that mother can’t afford for my studies in those prestigious institutions, as my brother was a bit dull in Studies and he needs payment seat . Studied in a local Engineering collage . Used to give home tuitions and pay a part of my college fee and bus fee.
Got placed through campus placement, got married hurriedly and had to leave job after conceiving ( at the beginning of Jupiter mahadasa). Came to USA. Tried so many times to get into work but no luck. All my life I wanted to work and earn and take care of my mother and brother. But till now I could do nothing for my mother.
The only best thing happened is my husband .. felt unlucky through out my life. But I strongly believe all my luck was spent to give me a wonderful husband.
now Iam scared about Shani mahadasa. And how it will impact my life , family.
Thanks again for the reply.
February 13, 2024 at 7:10 am #139438KalyaniGuest
Mother and brother are still struggling a bit.. I feel guilty for having a comparatively good life than my brother.. he is the one who affected most because of the abuse and fightings at home.. he is having very bad phase now..
February 13, 2024 at 7:47 pm #139444BuddyGuest
Just so you are aware, the birth-details place Udaya Lagna or Ascendent in your birth-chart in the Zodiac sign of Aries or Mesha Rashi. It is caught in the Rahu-Ketu axis.
Incidentally, Sun/Ravi is placed in his Neecha-Sthana or sign of debilitation in the Zodiac sign of Libra or Tula Rashi. He is caught in a nasty Graha Yudha or Planetary war with a malefic Ketu, while being posited in the Lunar Constellation of Swathi Nakshatra, ruled by Rahu. To make matters worse, Jupiter/Guru-dev is placed in his Neecha-Sthana or sign of debilitation. So, you now know why I might have asked you about your father. If I can take the liberty, I’d suggest that you realize that your father was a puppet in the overall scheme of things and was playing his Karmic role, as driven by planets or what we call as Graha-Chara.
Moon/Chandra, the 4th lord is placed in his Uccha-Sthana or sign of exaltation. He does to have much of support on either side of flanks, making you a bit of a loner with few friends and limited social life. I’m inclined to think you married relatively a little late.
All said and done, I’m inclined to think the upcoming Saturn/Shani-dev’s Maha-Dasha could be a bit trying, testing, challenging and for most parts transforming. I was also going to call out some challenges for your brother and mother… you’ll in all probability be stressed/bothered – more so with the onset of Sade-Sathi or Saturn/Shani-dev’s transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra. You’ll need to be a bit cautions about your own health.
All said and done, there are simple and easy ways to appease Saturn/Shani-dev… being humble/grounded and regular chanting of simple mantras should suffice.
PS: Kindly share some information about your husband/children. It may not be a bad idea to check combined or collective Karma.
February 13, 2024 at 8:41 pm #139446KalyaniGuest
In the beginning few years I used to be angry on my father. Used to hate him. Slowly realized by understanding the childhood my parents both had . Both of them are in same condition..emotionally distant father who were dead pretty early and then followed same life for my parents aswell. This thought makes be restless and scared about my kids.
got married pretty early .. soon after finishing graduation.
Husbands detail 26/08/1976 12:30 pm Vijayawada
son 08/08/2009 3:42 pm Vijayawada
son 26/01/2014 11.15 pm Decatur, GA, USA.
February 13, 2024 at 10:03 pm #139448KalyaniGuest
Sorry correction .. son2 26/01/2014 11:15 am Decatur , GA. I wrongly typed ‘pm’ instead of am.
February 14, 2024 at 12:28 pm #139456BuddyGuest
I’ve had a chance to cast birth-charts of your husband (who has already started Saturn/Shani-dev’s Maha-Dasha) and your children. Your elder son is in the midst of Sade-Sathi or Saturn/Shani-dev’s transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra. He will also be starting Maha-Dasha of Saturn/Shani-dev soon after (from later part of 2027). He is probably stressed, struggling and not at his best.
Udaya Lagna or Ascendent seems to be placed in a Cusp/Sandhi and in deep Gandanta degrees (assuming birth-time is accurate), being caught in transit while crossing the edge/boundary across Meena-Mesha. The younger son finshed Saturn/Shani-dev’s Maha-Dasha in 2018 and is currently in the midst of Mercury/Budha Maha-Dasha. I’m forced to wonder about his health and overall well-being.
In summary, it looks like all might not be well at home – would appreciate if you could possibly provide some background about your children, their relationship with you and your husband. I’m left wondering what you have not shared and what is it that you are really worried/concerned about.