Hi,
Ideally, sharing chronological sequence of events like when you fell in love, year of marriage etc. would help corelate our understanding of the unfolding of Karma from your birth-charts. If you really fell in love and married, then I’m inclined to think you birth-time is off by a few minutes.
Anyways, please be informed that you recently concluded Maha-Dasha of Ketu (as per Vimsottari Dasha System), who has been at his mischievous best over the course of last 7 years. Incidentally he is placed in the 7th Bhava along with Mars/kuja and Venus/Shukra (who are too close to each other for comfort). For the records, Mars/Kuja is a Badha-Karaka for the birth-chart. His placement in the 7th house/bhava (his Neecha-Sthana or sign of debilitation) is not preferred – an indication of possible anger/temper issues. He participates in Rashi Parivarthana with Moon/Chandra placed in the Badhaka-Sthana. Prior to that, you might have experienced some stressful times due to Saturn/Shani-dev’s transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra, your 7th lord placed in his Neecha-Sthana or sign of debilitation… called Sade-Sathi.
Incidentally, your husband is in the midst of Sade-Sathi (slowly getting past peak phase) or Saturn/Shani-dev’s transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra and slowly getting done with his Saturn/Shani-dev’s (placed alongside Udaya Lagna) Maha-Dasha, while in the midst of Jupiter/Guru-dev’s (placed very close to Gandanta degrees) Antara. I’m inclined to think life has been a bit of a grind for him and career progression has been slow.
Further, I’m inclined to think the inherent discord and detached feeling has not helped address your physiological needs and perhaps parental pleasure. All said and done, I’m inclined to think the marriage will survive the harsh test with some patience and effort.
Take care…