From what you have stated, it appears that you are getting married to a person you love. Normally since love is a fusion of minds, chart matching is not necessary. Both partners must be willing to face any difficulty together in all circumstances.
But the fact that you are quoting matching details appears to suggest that something is lacking between partners. As such I will give my comments:
Bhakoot dosha is not a problem in your case. The two rasi lords are not enemies. The problem is that the two nakshatras have vedha to each other and it is not recommended for marriage.
Being of same nadi gives some problems related to health and does not change the basic behaviour of individuals.
You also have the same Rajju – Udara Rajju. This means childbearing will not be easy or smooth.
On all these counts, compatibility does not exist. Your Guna milan is, perhaps, less than what you have mentioned.
There are no remedies that I know of which cancels the above doshas. Many a more knowledgeable astrologer can throw more light on the matter.
From my side, I can only suggest that both partners have to show maturity and understanding in the relationship. Performing a Uma-Maheshwara puja together after marriage helps.