While your husband horoscope has all the planets sandwiched between Rahu and Kethu which is not good, your horoscope has a Pravarjya yoga ( 4 planets in 8th house) which mars a happy married life. You should have checked all these before marriage. Now that you have problems in married life, the only way to overcome that is to shift your residence to somewhere far away when perhaps you will be able to live together happily.
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