Advice for Relation

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    • #185228 Reply
      hemangini
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      23-04-1999,
      3:35 pm,
      Amalsad, Gujarat
      Gender:female

      My Male friend has break friendship with me on 20 april , he stopped talking, I have feeling for him,
      And i confess him, I have tried So much but he didn’t understand . I think he also want to be friend or else but he is hidding something from me.
      His name is vishal . What should I do ,
      1) will he come back?
      2) what should I do , please guide me

    • #185256 Reply
      Buddy
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      Hi,

      Please be informed that posting questions/queries with different names does not change one’s Karma. The way I read the situation, it is perhaps a reflection of your mindset and misuse of intelligence, as also the desperation on your part.

      Given whatever has been shared previously, kindly consider focusing on changing yourself for good and better.

      Take care…

    • #185270 Reply
      hemangini
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      I thought maybe someone else can say something new or different. I m Sorry for that . Yes I have done that cz he is Special for me. I know I have anger issues but the with him I talked most calmly,( like my parents) , I rarely angry on him , and more than anger I have said sorry to him . I don’t understand why u said I have anger issues, I can beg him, I can touch his feet if I have to do it , where I am wrong, why ?

    • #185271 Reply
      hemangini
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      In 1 month and 10 days of broken friendship I have called him many times (in some says interval) , I have asked him reason, but he said to focus on career and marry someone else, how can I marry someone else if I love him, isn’t it bad for me and whom I marry.

      But I think I should give up on him, like u said I have anger issues etc etc, u r right I have issues,
      I want him to be happy. But I can’t marry someone else and I didn’t want my family stay sad because of me. I don’t know what to do.

    • #185273 Reply
      Buddy
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      Hi,

      You are more than welcome to seek as many alternate opinions from any number of folk – absolutely no issues, whatsoever. But then, to me (and folk like me), your actions give other hints and/or indications of your nature (nothing wrong with it… at least for me. But others might end up judging you. Isn’t it?), something that might not be the best or pleasant.

      In other words, our thoughts, speech and actions are creating impressions of us by folk who might be observing us.

      Take care…

    • #185275 Reply
      Buddy
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      Hi,

      By the way, you could asked for alternate opinions from more knowledgeable folk, in the same thread. Isn’t it?

      Back to your post…any reason why you would have apologized to him several times? Hopefully, you realize saying sorry unnecessarily might be yet another instance of displaying your weakness (if any).

      In summary (my humble opinion), you seem to be displaying all your weaknesses (if any) and desperation…something that may not help your cause.

      Take care…

    • #185277 Reply
      hemangini
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      Yes , I haven’t thought like that, yes others do judge me , I said sorry bcz I thought he is angry on me for some reason, I don’t know from which he judge me . I have tried all the things , I don’t think I can do something else more, but I’ll keep it in mind of all your advice like try to control my anger, try meditation,yoga and I already done prayer to shiva ,Ganesh ji . Thanks for advice .
      And I am also great full you make time for giving advice to me .

      Thank you buddy sir,
      By the way I always thought what’s your real name , like I m using different name , but I have taken so many advice from you.
      Still thank you sir.

    • #185278 Reply
      hemangini
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      I have asked him the reason but he didn’t but I’ll stop texting and calling him.

    • #185285 Reply
      Buddy
      Guest

      Hi,

      There is absolutely no need to thank me. I just hope you get a grip on yourself and not get desperate to the extent of losing yourself. And, if I were to take the liberty…I’m inclined to think the current experience is primarily driven by infatuation, for I do not see any Yogas for falling in love and/or the same materializing into a meaningful relationship. So, please exercise caution.

      Take care…

    • #185298 Reply
      hemangini
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      Sir.. R u sure that he is not the one. His details are : 27-12-2001 , his name is Vishal and we met first time in 11th April 2025, then 21-may 2025, then after a year 2 nd April 2026 and 9th April 2026, and our friendship break in 20 April 2026

      Should I really give up on him.i thought to marry him but he rejected me twice by saying his family won’t agree and we can be friends.

      • #185340 Reply
        Ray
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        Namaste Hemanginji,
        I have been reading between beautiful analysis by Buddy and the real situation you are placed in,and thought I could see if I can add my point of view to help you in matter using KP Horary as it does work well in many of my Astrology cases .The question you are seriously considering is whether you should give up Vishal completely..or whether you should persue,in otherwords YES or No.To answer this can we try KP Horary method …for this you just need to thinkof God close your eyes and give us the first number that comes tour mind between 1 to 249,both numbers inclusive,whichever first comes to your mind.Kindly send number and also record time for reference.
        Do you believe in power of prayers Hemanji? Your chart shows inclination of choosing your own spouse and definite hurdles too.So with permission of Buddy,could we make a try to help you in matter?
        Cheer up and everything happens for good.
        All the best
        Ray(of hope)

    • #185319 Reply
      Buddy
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      Hi,

      I’m sure you realize the need for birth-time and birth-place, to cast a birth-chart.

      Take care…

    • #185339 Reply
      hemangini
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      Sir,I don’t know his birth time , birthplace :Kutch bhuj. Ok last question sir, can you say when I will marry and his traits or something. Anything you can say to identify my future husband. So I match characteristics with him.

    • #185343 Reply
      hemangini
      Guest

      Hello , Ray sir it’s 17:48 and first number come in my mind is his dob which is 27 and then 11(the day we met).

    • #185344 Reply
      hemangini
      Guest

      And yes sir , I do believe , I have chanted Hanuman chalisha 100 time to convince my mother to allow me to go to ahemdabad for job.

    • #185356 Reply
      hemangini
      Guest

      Other then this , 7 number come in my mind.the time is 18:57. This situation is also confusing me.

      And one thing I have always thought of that what if he had some reason and He is running away or staying away from me but what if he is not happy by breaking our friendship.

      When I try to think situation and the lord whom I believe. I don’t know what to do. I am grateful if you can guide me . Thank you .

      • #185395 Reply
        Ray
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        Hemanginiji,
        Namaste.Normally for answering Horary you should restrict only to one number.Nevertheless based on number 27 first mentioned by you and your birth chart,it shows marriage to the person of your choice after delay, hurdles from elders,disputes.Your chart shows you are a person who does not give up easily,you have a strong will,though you need to overcome ego,anger,impatience to succeed ultimately.It also shows some initial adjustment problems in relationship.So better all this is discussed before marriage .You are running your Venus Dasa which would give you marriage but you may have to wait till middle of 2027 for things to sort out.
        Have patience and worshiping goddess Mahalakshmi on Fridays will surely.
        God bless
        Ray

    • #185396 Reply
      hemangini
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      Thanks for advice Ray sir. I’ll try to control on my anger, Ego and yes impatience(this is so true)

    • #185515 Reply
      Kavita
      Guest

      A boy was creating turblance in my life was intersted in me since past 5 years finally I have complaint a file against him but my family was supporting him since past 5 five years and I met someone I like in in oct 2025 he is interested in me I am interested in him it’s mutual but my family created turblance even before knowing him they talked shit about me so he can reject he didn’t but after filling complaint my family is playing games like they say they are open minded but not so cast culture religion issue we wants to marry hut outer internferce and police don’t want this for now please tell what can I expect like what’s his purpose is there marriage or just lesson
      If he is not then whom?? Right now my family is allowing him and I am not allowing past people

      My birth details are
      01-april-2001
      21:30
      Ludhiana Punjab india

      • #185518 Reply
        Ray
        Guest

        Kavitaji,
        Do you have complete birth details of this second boy you met in October 2025?
        It is then easier to check if you will marry this boy or not.
        Ray

    • #185543 Reply
      Kavita
      Guest

      No I don’t have accurate details he is January last born 2001 birth year

      • #185648 Reply
        Ray
        Guest

        Kavitaji,
        Your chart shows love marriage to the second boy you love after initial hurdles,opposition.
        Please handle situation with patience and care and you will succeed in your efforts.The present Dasa of Saturn and transit of Jupiter will help after October 2026.
        Good lock and God bless
        Ray

    • #185688 Reply
      hemangini
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      Ray sir…
      Can you say what is characteristics of my future husband or anything about him , so that I know he is the one or not? also his location near or far from my birthplace. and I’ll be grateful if you also say about atleast a year or month about my marriage timings. Thank you. (Also my real name is not hemangini , sorry for that I have changed the name for 2 purpose 😅) // My real name still start with H …(This name hemangini is Choosen by my mother for me but unfortunately my father selected name is finalized )

    • #185689 Reply
      hemangini
      Guest

      Birth details:23-04-1999,time: 15:35 , place : navsari , Gujarat.

      • #185698 Reply
        Ray
        Guest

        Hi Ms.H,
        It would be improper for me to answer in this chain as I respect the predictions by co-astrologer.Hope you understand.
        thanks,cheer up..
        Good luck
        Ray

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