Married but living separately fighting over small issues

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    • #189116 Reply
      Noble
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      Hi

      dob-21-Aug-1992

      tob-6:30AM

      place of birth-Guduru,SPSR Nellore dist,

      Marriage happened in oct 2025 from day 1 onwards she is living separately.she didn’t stay with husband not for one day?i want to know the reason why she is behaving?

      After completing her B.Tech she didn’t get job and trying for past 10 years still she didn’t get job.she is not trying other domains in IT or higher education,Government job.Only she is telling all the time i didn’t get job?i am working in part time she is saying.she is not listening to anyone at all.

      I want to know the exact reasons its job means why she is not getting even though she have degree ,knowledge,if any reasons please explain clearly without hesitant?From 2011 onwards she is constant conflicts ,arguments fighting for small issuse,not understanding anything,mainly with father and mother?I want to know actually behaviour of her.

      please provide solution

    • #189141 Reply
      Buddy
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      Hi,

      I assume birth-details are of that of the girl who got married in October 2025. Please confirm. Also, let me/us know who you are and how you are related to the girl.

      Take care…

    • #189142 Reply
      Noble
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      Hi,

      I am her sister who knows the birth details.My parents got tension and thinking extremely .I want to know the exact reason because she is not telling anything to anyone.she is not allowing to talk to anyone with this matters. Please provide solution.I suggest how to handle these situations

      Thanks

       

       

       

       

       

       

       

    • #189143 Reply
      Ray
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      Hi Noble,

      Please also provide birth details of spouse.

      Ray

    • #189145 Reply
      Noble
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      Spouse- 28/10/1992

      Tob-6:25PM

      Pob – hosur, Krishnagiri dist tamilnadu

       

    • #189171 Reply
      shukra
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      It is completely understandable why your family is experiencing so much tension, but analyzing her horoscope reveals that her behavior, career struggles, and marital distance stem directly from heavy planetary timelines. Between March 2007 and March 2014, she was running her Mars Mahadasha, a period that naturally brings strong aggression, a quick temper, and rebelliousness, which triggered the initial conflicts and arguments with her parents. In March 2014, she transitioned into rahu mahadasha (running until 2032), which explains her extreme secrecy and non-communicative nature. Rahu sits in her 5th house while its ruler Mercury resides in her 12th house this placement creates intense stubbornness, a desire to do everything strictly on her own terms, and an inclination to build walls around herself, refusing to share her thoughts mercury is karaka for speech even with immediate family. Regarding her career, while her 10th lord Venus sits in the 1st house alongside Sun and Jupiter, her 6th lord Saturn is retrograde in its own sign in the 6th house. This retrograde Saturn influence generates long delays, deep internal daily frustration, and a rigid refusal to pivot or adapt to other career domains despite holding a B.Tech degree. Similarly, in marital matters, Saturn rules her 7th house of marriage; its retrograde placement in the 6th house (daily-struggle), combined with Rahu’s ongoing influence, creates sudden emotional detachment, severe friction, and immediate separation right after marriage. Her refusal to speak about it comes from a mix of deep internal confusion, pride, and feeling completely misunderstood. To handle this situation, direct confrontation or aggressive questioning will only trigger her defensiveness and cause her to shut down further; the family should maintain a soft, low-pressure approach or involve a neutral third party to open up dialogue gently.
      Looking at your brother-in-law’s chart alongside your sister’s adds a lot of clarity to the situation. In his chart (Aries ascendant), the 7th lord (Venus) goes directly to the 8th house (Scorpio), sitting alongside Mercury and Moon. The 8th house is the house of secrets, hidden matters, and deep transformation meaning her partner could be naturally very secretive or hiding things himself. While this combination can sometimes point to past hidden matters or unrevealed personal dynamics, it manifests differently in every chart. Additionally, his 7th house dynamics bring in Sun’s authoritative nature, which easily triggers ego clashes if expectations aren’t met on either side. Combine this with your sister running her Rahu Mahadasha (which creates heavy illusions, suspicion, and emotional walls) and her husband running his 8th house Mercury Mahadasha, and it becomes clear that both individuals are operating under immense hidden tension and miscommunication. Looking ahead, he will transition into Ketu Mahadasha in October 2029, which naturally signifies detachment and distance, indicating that emotional friction could persist if left unaddressed. It is a tough and delicate situation where either your sister or the husband is holding back key truth from the past. Since things are at a crucial juncture, the best step is for senior members from both families to sit down transparently, open a gentle dialogue, or seek professional counseling and I sincerely hope they are able to work things out together.

    • #189194 Reply
      Ray
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      Namaste Noble,

      She is born in Krittika Nakshatra and he is born in Anuradha Nakshatra and as per traditional moon based Astakuta the score is 26.5/36 or 74%.There appears to be a Karmic factor which brought them together for marriage.She is running her Rahu Dasa till 2032 while he is running his Venus Dasa and the two planets in Synastry are in 2/12 which is not good.The individual Horoscopes and Synastry aspects which play a major role in marriage unfortunately shows disturbance in marriage and living together,with ego clashes,different mindsets and different priorities in marriage.I am sure you and your parents can try to advise your sister who is rather independant by nature,with certain fixed ideas which need to be corrected.I am saying that the boy is soft ,but he appears to be assertive , and can argue if he finds her unreasonable.Most important is mutual understanding and they have hardly tried to understand each other.Her professional ambitions are high but delay is seen in her horoscope to secure the job of her liking.Vedic remedies can be also tried after you talk to your sister.Let us be positive in our approach.You can also have at the expert opinions of other Astrologers on this forum and please feel free to ask any additional information if required. God bless.

      Ray

    • #189215 Reply
      Noble
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      Hi Shukra/Ray sir,

      meaning her partner could be naturally very secretive or hiding things himself. While this combination can sometimes point to past hidden matters or unrevealed personal dynamics, it manifests differently in every chart.

      It is a tough and delicate situation where either your sister or the husband is holding back key truth from the past.

      I am not able to understanding holding truth from past means Either sister or brother-in-law something they are hiding which causes friction in marriage .You mean any severe health issuse or break up or what else?

      When she will get permanent job?

    • #189483 Reply
      Buddy
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      Hi,

      Just so you are aware, the native is in the midst of a nasty or not so good Rahu Maha-Dasha, as per Vimsottari Dasha system. He is not really a benefic for the birth-chart and hence the native’s experience thus far since 2014.

      Apart from that, the native is a strong Manglik or has a Mangala or Kuja Dosha – both from Ascendent or Udaya Lagna and from natal placement of Moon/Chandra. This makes the native prone to anger and short temper. This can adversely impact spousal relationship and make it hard to sustain the relationship. To make things a bit more interesting, Moon/Chandra in the gentleman’s birth-chart is unhappily / uncomfortably placed in the 8th house of Randra-Sthana – which also is the 8th house from placement of Moon/Chandra in the native’s birth-chart. So, it is very natural that the couple may not have much of understanding and may be at logger-heads with each other.  Further, gentleman is in the midst of Venus/Shukra Maha-Dasha, placed in the 8th house of Randra-Sthana and Antara of Rahu (who is again not a benefic for him) – not to mention other afflictions and hence the current situation.

      Lastly, I’d like to draw your attention to the fact that the native has started her second Sade-Sathi or Saturn/Shani-dev’s transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra. So, it would make sense for the native to gear-up for some challenging, testing/trying times ahead.

      Given the situation, it would perhaps make sense for the native to propitiate Rahu and start chanting simple Saturn/Shani-dev’s mantras. More importantly, it would make sense for the family and loved ones to be supportive of her.

      Take care…

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