[Shek]

How is my wife nature ? After having baby she has changed . She gets angry most of the time

Her : 12th March 1993
Kathmandu Nepal
12:25am

Mine : 27th August 1988
Calcutta India
1:48pm

Son
9th Nov 2024
8:50pm
Australia Sydney

Marriage date 2017 Dec 11
Also any chance for second baby ? Will we have daughter ?

[JVS Rao]

Mr. Shek
It is the common feature or tendency of the ladies who have given birth to one child. They will not be asked for conjugal relationship, when the child is a baby. They will show love and affection towards the child not on husband. When the child grows up then they will try for the love of husband. Since then you have to bear.

There are feeble chances for 2nd child in the period 26-12-2025 to 03-03-2026. If it is missed next year is good.

Good Luck
JVS Rao (KP system follower)

[JMD]

Improving your relationship with your wife requires patience, understanding, and mutual respect specially after birth your a child. From astrology perspective, the 7th house of the horoscope represents marriage and partnership; Venus signifies love and marital harmony, while Jupiter represents wisdom, understanding, and family values. The Moon is also important because it governs the mind and emotional stability. Afflictions to these planets or the 7th house may traditionally be interpreted as indicators of misunderstandings, emotional distance, or disagreements in married life.  Looking at your matching you have 20 guna milan score and 5-9 bhakoot dosha. Bhakoot dosha remedy should always be considered if not done till now.

Since your wife has recently given birth to a child, this is a particularly important phase in your married life. After childbirth, a woman may experience physical exhaustion, hormonal changes, disturbed sleep, and emotional sensitivity. She may need more reassurance, affection, and practical support from her husband than before. Sometimes, a husband may feel that his wife is giving all her attention to the baby and that their relationship has changed. Such feelings are understandable, but this is the time to strengthen your emotional bond rather than allow misunderstandings to develop. Do not interpret her tiredness, reduced communication, or lack of intimacy as a sign that she no longer loves you. Give her sufficient time to recover physically and emotionally.

As a traditional Vedic remedy, you can chant the “Om Shum Shukraya Namah” mantra 108 times every Friday. Venus is associated with love, affection, marital happiness, and harmony. Chant the mantra peacefully after bathing, preferably in the morning, and pray for mutual understanding and a loving relationship. You may also chant “Om Namah Shivaya” daily, with faith and sincerity, seeking the blessings of Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati for stability and harmony in married life. You can also offer water to Lord Shiva every Mondays.  Regarding gemstones,  you can try wearing Emerald or even better a White Sapphire, or a fiery opal.

From a practical perspective, make a conscious effort to spend some time with your wife every day, even if it is only 15–20 minutes without mobile phones or other distractions. Listen to her concerns without immediately defending yourself or trying to prove that you are right. Help her with the baby, household responsibilities, and nighttime care wherever possible. Small gestures, such as preparing a meal, asking about her health, expressing appreciation, or allowing her to rest, can have a significant impact on your relationship. Avoid arguments about minor matters, comparisons with other couples, and criticism in front of family members. Give physical intimacy time to return naturally after childbirth, following her comfort and medical advice.

Finally, do not allow ego or silence to create emotional distance between you. If something is troubling you, communicate it gently instead of keeping resentment inside. Both partners need to feel valued and respected.

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