Hi,
To me, it looks like you’ve been generally happy and satisfied with how things have panned out. Quite frankly, I’m surprised why you guys have not acted and tried (I’m sure you would have… but was it good enough is what I’m left wondering about) to bring out a change in your situation. I’m also wondering about any help/guidance/suggestions/push from parents/families on either side. Obviously, there could be many good and/or compelling reasons… but nothing justifies (although Astrologically there are some hints that need to be double-check – something that can be done interactively with both of you) what you’ve shared (and my understanding of the situation) thus far.
Anyways, I’d suggest that you guys seek professional help in terms of counselling. Alternately, we can go back and forth in an open/public forum or we can exchange private messages – either of which, you’ll agree will take time and will have limited efficiency.
Take care…