Hi,
Just so you are aware, you are in the mist of Lagna Lord Jupiter/Guru-dev’s Maha-Dasha. He is Vakra or Retrograde and more importantly afflicted by Rahu. For the records, both Lunar Nodes Rahu & Ketu have below par Vimsopaka Bala in Dasha Varga and 6th lord or Roga-Sthana Sun/Ravi has been activated. I’m also inclined to think you are susceptible to Evil Eye, Black Magic and other such… over and beyond whatever has already been shared.
Your husband is also in the midst of Jupiter/Guru-dev’s Maha-Dasha, placed alongside Udaya Lagna in his Neecha-Sthana. For the records, he is not really a benefic for the birth-chart. 5th lord Venus/Shukra being placed in his Neecha-Sthana as well is not helping the cause… nor Saturn/Shani-dev’s transit into the 8th house from natal placement of Moon/Chandra or Ashtama-Shani.
There are afflictions in both the charts indicating challenges. In my humble opinion, you should feel really blessed to be experiencing parental pleasure. So, I think you should feel happy and satisfied.
Given my understanding, I think you might be putting yourself at risk and (neither do I hope or wish.. in fact, I hope my understanding is wrong) risking the well being of the progeny you are so very desperately pursuing.
Take care…