If you cannot live together for 3 months, how are you going to live lifelong? If you two are not prepared to adjust between yourselves, now it is very easy to divorce. 6 months wait is no more required.
There is no divorce in both of your charts, separation is for a certain period only.
The situations will create panic for separation. I hope you will unite and live together, as there are no chances of more than one marriage in both the charts.