Hi,

In short, I’m inclined to think the couple are not the best of matches. There seem to be multiple incompatibilities in the birth-charts… with detached feelings and lack of bonding (with strong footprint and undeniable influence of Ketu, in both the birth-charts).

Both are Mangalik – both have anger/temper issues… with the lady being a bit more dominant and forceful with her ways, with uncontrollable anger, whenever she loses her cool/composure. To make matters a bit more interesting, the lady went through Sade-Sathi or Saturn/Shani-dev’s transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra and the gentleman following right behind. In fact, he is in the 3rd or last stage… given an impression you guys have been through rough weather for quite some time. Soon after, the gentleman will be starting his Ketu Maha-Dasha, while the lady has started Yogakaraka Saturn/Shani-dev’s Maha-Dasha (as per Vimsottari Dasha system).

Given the situation, it would perhaps make sense for both of you (if really interested in bring about some positive changes in your marital life/relationship) to consider offering special prayers regularly to Lord Ganesha and chant Uma Maheshwara Stotra with unwavering faith, bhakti and a strong Sankalpa.

Take care…

Hi Sir

Thank you for your apt analysis. Yes whatever you said is correct. Actually ours is relational marriage, I know him from childhood. He is good but he loved his childhood friend very much, but he couldn’t express and she got married and they still talk…. So is their any chances that they love each other and it is affecting our married life? Please let me know to save my marriage.

Thanks

Hi,

Quite frankly, there is an indication of the gentleman being in love or love like relationship. But then, there is no way the feeling or relationship could have materialized into anything significant, with Ketu in all probability playing spoilsport.

Further, there is a good possibility of doubt and concern being deeply ingrained and inhibiting in your mind. Whatever be the case, it would perhaps make sense for you to get this out of your mind and have a clean/clear mind.

Take care…

Ok sir as you said I will not think over it again.

sir could you please tell his nature in general, as I see you are addressing him as gentleman, so it is making me curious to know about his nature.

Thanks

Hi,

I’m following a general etiquette on a public internet platform by  addressing you as a lady…so, naturally, I’d address him as a gentleman. Shouldn’t I? Please do not read too much into it…

From your birth-chart, the 7th lord Mars/Kuja (also happens to be the 12th lord of Vyaya/Losses) is placed in his Neecha-Sthana… although there is some cancellation. He seems to be generally detached of worldly things, does not seem to have good relationship with siblings.

Take care…

<p style=”text-align: left;”>hi Sir appreciate your way of addressing people.</p>
He has elder brother and elder sister. His brother and he runs own firm and maintains fairly good relationship. But he has good bonding with his sister and mother. His father expired suddenly in 2014 from then he is bit disturbed and detached.

Hi,

The combination of Mercury/Budha, Mars/Kuja and Ketu in the 3rd house is a strong indicator of detached relationship with sibling/brother. Hence, my note in the previous post.

Take care…

Hi could you please reply

thanks