Hi,

I’m inclined to think there was something unconventional about your marriage and it might not be easy to sustain the relationship, given your uncontrollable and excess anger/temper, tantrum and related issues.

It would help if you could consider sharing your husband’s birth-details.

Take care…

Thanks, Buddy for your help. Actually, I’m not married yet, and now I’m unsure if I should proceed. I went to an astrologer to show why this delay in marriage is coming and he said marriage problems, cheating husband and whatnot. Not sure if I would get married if love is missing and divorce is in my destiny. Yes, I do have temperament issues, also I did have a relationship with my office colleague, but it did not work out the way we planned as when his family matched our charts they said we are not compatible.

Hi,

I guessed as much…you’ll need to tone down your expectations and be flexible enough to consider unconventional alliances if you are truly interested in getting married (which in any case seems to be delayed). That said, your temperament will continue to be a hinderance for a happy and fulfilling married life.

In any case, if I were to make an unsolicited suggestion…it would perhaps make sense for you to consider alliances from distant land and better if in-laws live away, for you’ll have a hard time living in a nuclear or joint family.

And, quite honestly (request you to kindly bear with me) I would encourage the groom’s side to exercise caution, if they were to seek guidance on potential brides with such temperament.

Take care…

Ms. Leena
We have to see the planets in a house not in rasi. There is a lot of difference in house and rasi. Houses are seen for the matters like marriage and signs are seen to weigh the strength of the planet. The astrologers have to go through the bhava chart only.
In your case Saturn is in 6th house where Mars is in the 7th house, Sun and Mercury are also in 7th house which is the required house for marriage. 7th cusp sub lord Venus is in 8th house (tensions). But it is in the star of Ketu in 9th house and signifying Mercury lord of 2nd house and 11th house in 7th house. Even though Venus is in 8th house it gives 2nd house (addition to family). It is not bad. So your 7th house is signifying marriage and you are destined to marry.
Running period is of Jupiter-sun upto 2-11-2025. Jupiter is signifying Rahu in 3rd house (negotiations by your side) and signifying Moon in 6th house (detriment to marriage), conjoined with Saturn in 6th house. So there would be missing of one or two alliances. But the Moon is signifying 7th house. so marriage is promised in Jupiter period.
Moon bhukti is powerful to give you marriage which is from 2-11-2025 to 04-03-2027. The other parties will come in this period.
The groom will be magnanimous and very nice person. You can enjoy your married life.
Good Luck
JVS Rao (KP system follower)