Currently the Venus dasa is in progress. Venus is in the 7th sign. In the bhava chart he occupies the 6th bhava. In Dasamsa, it occupies the 12th house. It is closely associated with Ketu. Promotion at job is difficult.

Its nakshatra lord is Sun who occupies the 6th house of Dasamsa and can give promotion. But he is in its debilitation house and associated with Rahu. He is also the lord of a Dagdha Rasi without cancellation reducing the chances of promotion.

The antardasa lord is Moon. He is in its debilitation sign and in the nakshatra of Mercury. Mercury is the cuspal lord of the 6th house of roga. Mercury, Moon and Sun are all in the nakshatra of Jupiter who, as the lord of the 6th house, is the rogakaraka. Even Venus and Ketu contribute to roga since they occupy the 6th Bhava in the bhava chart.

Anger issues are due to Mercury if these issues are of recent origin. If so, it is better to consult a doctor since it may turn to schizophrenia.

Else, a shanti for Mercury, recital of Vishnusahasranama and some pranayama can control the anger. Jalabhisheka for Lord Shiva is needed for Sun. All remedies must be done with proper sankalpa.

Hi,

Given birth-details seem to place Ascendent or Udaya Lagna in the Zodiac sign of Libra or Tula Rashi and 10th lord Moon/Chandra is placed in his Neecha-Sthana or sign of debilitation, with little support on either side of the flank, making the native a bit of a loner with few friends and limited social life – not to mention the impact on Karma-Sthana.

Current Maha-Dasha is that of Lagna & 8th lord Venus/Shukra placed in the Zodiac sign of Aries or Mesha Rashi. He is caught in transition at the Cusp/Sandhi and seems to have barely crossed over, while being placed very close to deep Gandanta degrees. Incidentally, he also activates Rahu who is not a benefic for the birth-chart. Antara is that of Moon/Chandra.

On my part, I’m inclined to think the stated anger/temper issues are deep rooted in Mars/Kuja being place in his Uccha-Sthana or sign of exaltation, making him a Mangalic, not to mention the mutual aspect with Saturn/Shani-dev… inducing uncontrollable anger/temper to the extent of breaking/burning whatever he might have build with love and affection. A bit of a dual personality. It looks like there have been instances of the native throwing tantrums at home and work-place building an unwanted reputation for himself.

Further, it looks like the native is susceptible to envy, evil-eyes, black-magic and.or evil-spells. For the records, (Karaka for elevated positions) Sun/Ravi is a Badha-Karaka for the birth-chart and the Sukshma Parivarthana with Jupiter/Guru-dev, at Nakshatra level is not a good sign.

Given the situation, it would make sense for the native to realize his weakness, consider calming himself by practicing Yogasana, Meditation and Pranayama. Further, it would be beneficial for the native to consider offering special prayers regularly to Mahadev Shiva and Goddess MahaLakshmi with unwavering faith, bhakti/devotion and a strong Sankalpa.

Take care…

dob:june 28th 1980

time : 7:10 am

place : Visakhapatnam, andhrapradesh

dob : March 10th 1977

time: 10pm

place : Rajamandry  , Andhrapradesh

pls let me know the comparability, married for 10 years but not at all happy, some time I am scared to stay with him because of anger issues and mood swings . Once kids leave i want to live by my self or take divorce . Too much influence and daily activities also he discuss with his dada and sister and then takes the decision. I am tired of his behavior . Pls suggest remedies and do i have divorce or away from my husband once they get into college?

Hi,

Interesting indeed…please feel free to ignore anything that is not to your taste/liking and rest assured, I’m not being judgement of you. Instead, I’m merely highlighting my understanding of your birth-chart and planetary influences making you the way you are.

Given birth-details seem to place Ascendent or Udaya Lagna in the Zodiac sign of Cancer or Karkataka Rashi and Lagna Lord Moon/Chandra is placed in the 6th house of Roga-Sthana, with no support on either side of the flanks, making you also a loner with very few friends and limited social life – not to mention your own mood-swings.

You seem to have just started Maha-Dasha of Rahu placed alongside Ascendent or Udaya Lagna and 12th lord Mercury/Budha and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Ashlesha Nakshatra, ruled by Mercury/Budha. For the records, Rahu is not a benefic for the birth-chart and his association with Mercury/Budha is not preferred – no doubt you seem to be having crazy thoughts.

On my part, I’m inclined to think you are actually a step ahead of your husband, when it comes to  uncontrollable anger/temper issues. You are also a Mangalic with Yogakaraka Mars/Kuja placed in the 2nd house and in close conjunction with 7th lord Saturn/Shani-dev… inducing uncontrollable anger/temper to the extent of breaking/burning whatever you might have build with love and affection. It looks like you are more than a match for your husband (please realize he and your children are bearing with you… and you should be happy to have them as a family), when it comes to throwing tantrums and mood-swings… not to mention arguments and fights.

Given the situation, it would make sense for you to realize your own weakness, consider calming yourself by practicing Yogasana, Meditation and Pranayama….as also consider Sandhi-Shanti and Rahu-Shanti Homa/Havan (a fire ritual).  Further, it would be beneficial for you to consider change your mindset of blaming others and focus on bringing about positive changes in yourself. All said and done, I’m inclined to think you are very well headed towards separation… but for strong reasons for you to continue in the relationship (like family/societal influence, financial/emotional dependence and other such).

Take care…

do I take divorce?

Hi,

Is that what you want? What will you achieve by seeking/taking divorce?

On my part, I was hoping you’d salvage the situation, hang on to the hope and family bonding.

Take care…

Hi,

In my humble opinion, your intelligence will be clouded (during Rahu Maha-Dasha) and you might consider taking foolhardy decisions… something that you might repent/regret later. I’d urge you not to take hasty decisions… instead, it would make sense for you to think through (not once.. but multiple times) and be cautious, before acting.

Take care…

Hi Sir
As said could you please tell remedies for both of us individually, as I tried my level best to hold this relationship.
Ours is love marriage and it is not easy for me to leave him, but things are driven to that extent.
Please take it humble request and try to give the remedies to live peacefully.

Please tell the remedies for sun badhakaraka in his birth chart

Hi,

Indications of love marriage can be observed in the birth-chart. In my humble opinion, uncontrollable anger/temper is your worst enemy – realizing, toning down (maturity and understanding will come only with life’s hard lessons, with age / experience) and accepting each other for the way you are will help.

Given the situation, it would perhaps make sense for both of you (if really interested in bringing about some positive changes in your marital lives/relationship) to consider offering special prayers regularly to Lord Ganesha and chant Uma Maheshwara Stotra with unwavering faith, bhakti and a strong Sankalpa.

Take care…