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Namaste. I want to know what’s the future of my marriage life. When will our relationship get better? Or do we end up in separation? For a couple of years we both having conflicts. DOB: 14th Dec 1981 @15:15 Kundapura Karnataka. My wife: 29th August 1984 @13:40 Mangalore Karnataka. Thank you
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You are running the dasa of Venus, lord of 2nd and 7th houses (both maraka sthanas). In Navamsa, Venus is placed in the 8th from Navamsa Lagna but in the 12th from Natal Lagna – both being undesired placements.
Your wife is running Jupiter dasa. Jupiter is the lord of 2nd and 5th houses, one of which is a maraka sthana. In Navamsa, Jupiter is placed in the 4th from Navamsa Lagna but in the 8th from Natal lagna.
For both it is not a good period. However, no serious marriage break is seen.
Does your conflict relate to children? or is another member of the family the cause of conflict?
Performing a Uma-Maheshwara puja together with your wife is suggested.
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Yes, it related to child and family members. My wife does not want to stay with my parents and not allowing child to meet the grandparents. There are lot of misunderstandings and she doesn’t like me to spend time with my mom.
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Hi,
Your wife is running 2nd & 5th lord Jupiter/Guru-dev’s Maha-Dasha, since 2013. He is Vakra or Retrograde and strongly placed in his Swashtana and Moola-Trikona in the Zodiac sign of Sagittarius or Dhanur Rashi. So, I’m inclined to think she is a Satvik and Dharmic individual, with ingrained cultural and traditional values. In case, you differ in your views, there is a good chance the birth-details may not be accurate. Alternately, I’d encourage to introspect and look for root-cause for your wife’s behavior – the real issue or root-cause may be elsewhere.
If the birth-time is indeed accurate, then please be informed of the strong influence of Ketu (in both of your birth-charts) that is up to some mischief… So, it would make sense for you guys to consider propitiating Ketu by way of offering special prayers daily to Lord Ganesh, with unwavering faith, bhakti/devotion and a strong Sankalpa.
PS: By the way, please rest assured…I’m not being judgmental of either you or your wife. I’m merely trying to understand the influence and planetary positions and their disposition.
Take care…
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Hi,
You are currently in the midst of 2nd & 7th lord Venus/Shukra Maha-Dasha from 2014. He is placed in the 10th house of Karma-Sthana in the Zodiac sign of Capricorn or Makara Rashi ruled by Karma-Karaka Saturn/Shani-dev (who is placed in the 6th house of Roga-Ripu-Runa) and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Uttarashada Nakshatra, ruled by 5th lord Sun/Ravi (who himself is placed in the 8th house of Randra-Sthana, or house of Challenges, Testing/Trying times and Sudden Changes). Ketu (who is not in the best of moods and has below par Vimsopaka Bala in Dasha Varga) being posited alongside in the Lunar Constellation of Uttarashada Nakshatra is not preferred.
Although Venus/Shukra as the Dasha lord and his time-period have had some influence, I’m inclined to think recent transit of Saturn/Shani-dev and resulting Ashtama-Shani has had some influence on domestic/personal life and relationships – not to mention the unfavorable Antaras of Rahu (who also is not in the best of moods and has below par Vimsopaka Bala in Dasha Varga) and Jupiter/Guru-dev (who is posited in the Lunar Constellation of Swathi Nakshatra, ruled by Rahu.
On the sidelines, it looks like you are bit of a loner with very few friends and limited social life. You also seem to have uncontrollable anger/temper (to the extent of being a completely different person – more like a dual personality), whenever you are triggered – for whatever reasons. This is not conducive of promoting relationship – either at home or at workplace. You don’t seem to have anybody to share your issues/concerns. All said and done, it might not be a bad idea for you to consider getting a medical test and if need be, professional advice/guidance.
On the other side of the spectrum, it looks like Ketu (Nakshatra depositor of Maha-Dasha lord Jupiter/Guru-dev, who is Vakra. For the records, Ketu has below par Vimsopaka Bala in Dasha Varga) has induced some detachment and her own anger/temper is holding her in good stead and ensuring the bond of marriage has not been broken.
Given the situation, it might not be a bad idea for you guys to consider appropriate Vedic/Dharmic remedies and work towards addressing core or root-cause issues.
Take care…
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Hi,
If I were to take the liberty to give an unsolicited suggestion, I’d suggest that you focus on yourself and try your best not lose her.
Take care…
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Thank you for clarifying the reasons for conflicts. In fact both of you have your Lagna lords as Mars – yours being open and adventurous while hers is closed and secretive. What is going on in her mind is difficult to guess but I feel she has some fears (reasonable or unreasonable) which could have its foundation during 2021 during Ketu antardasa. Her Hasta nakshatra characteristics of being particular about many things also doesn.t help.
Her Navamsa Lagna occupied by Rahu and Saturn doesn.t indicate a smooth marriage.
The period after Nov-Dec 2026 will be a difficult period for sustenance of marriage. The time till then can be utilised to perform the suggested puja and try to come to a compromise.
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Yes! After 2020 we started facing issues in our relationship. She misunderstood many things or overthoughts. We were in joint family with my parents and brother. But now we live separately with her own conditions. Im trying to come out of past issues and memories of chaos but it’s not easy for me. Again we need to rebuild our bond and trust
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Hi,
Beyond whatever I’ve called out, I’m also inclined to think you are a bit of a stubborn (with strong-fixed views and perceptions) person and will rarely seek help, heed to advise or guidance from others. So, no matter what I/we share, you will continue to have the old/previous perception and will do whatever you are inclined to – something that can prove to be detrimental for your own good.
But then, the current time and issue demands of you to think a bit more, consider/validate new perspectives, ideas and if need be, change your mindset. It will help you tide over such issues/situation.
PS: Request you to kindly bear with me and my opinion… that are purely based on my observation and understanding of your birth-chart (factoring-in my/our disadvantage over a virtual forum… where we miss out finer details). You are more than welcome and are free to ignore anything/everything I’ve shared thus far and can seek as many alternate opinions as you feel like.
Take care…
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If your issue are not solved before Dec 2025, there is high chance of divorce us possible 2026 -2027 period. Hence be careful.
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You are right. I’m stubborn and not taking any help or guidance. Also unable forget the fault of her side. She is also stubborn. We were about to get separate last year itself but because of our child we reconsidered our dicision. But not fully accepted our mistakes
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We were about to get separate in 2024 itself. Our fight and misunderstandings were at peak. But somehow others involvement we changes our dicision but it’s been a year we are not fully build our trust and bond.
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