Mrs. Priya Verma

Your lagna is Cancer, a watery sign. The lord is in a watery sign Scorpio. That means you are very intelligent and have fertile imagination, but very sensitive and build castles in the air. Moon is in the star of Saturn. That gives you lethargic, postponements causing you frustration. Saturn is also in the star of Moon. So you are very sensitive.

Your 1st cusp (self) sub lord Venus is in the 8th house (tensions). Venus is signifying Rahu in 5th house (children, love and affections) and Sun (lord of 2nd house – finance, addition to the family) in 8th house. That Sun is in the star of Saturn in 7th house (husband). So it clearly says that you have more interest in your husband and love him most. You can not bear if he says anything against your wishes. You have ego and always wish him to be in your control.

His lagna is Virgo, an earthy sign. Its lord Mercury is in 11th house in a fiery sign. He will be active and more practical. His 1st cusp (self) sub lord Venus is conjoined with Jupiter in a watery sign. It says that he is well versed in both bhakti and rakti. He will be in devotional line, at the same time he will be more affectionate with you in the bed room.

Comparing both the charts, there is no chance of separation or divorce. Your current if period is of Ketu dasa and Jupiter bhukti which is from 3-1-2025 to 10-12-2025. Ketu is in 11th house and in the star of Rahu in 5th house. So Ketu is good it will not give separation. Bhukti lord Jupiter is the lord of 6th house (disturbances) and is aspecting Rahu in 5th house. So there would be fears to you upto 10-12-2025 about divorce or separation. But it will not take place.

You have to think practical.

Good Luck

JVS Rao (KP system follower)

Hi,

Just so you are aware, you (wife) are in the midst of Ketu Maha-Dasha. He is placed in the 12th house of Vyaya/Losses and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Ardra Nakshatra, ruled by Rahu. Incidentally, Rahu and Ketu participate in Sukshma Parivarthana Yoga, activating each other. Rahu is not in the best of mood and has below part Vimsopaka Bala. So, the Lunar Nodes Rahu-Ketu have made your life a bit of a roller-coaster ride. Jupiter/Guru-dev being posited in the Lunar Constellation of Magha Nakshatra ruled by Ketu is adding on to the detached feeling… putting stress on your relationship

On the sidelines, Lagna Lord Moon/Chandra being placed in his Neecha-Sthana or sign of debilitation is not a good sign… as is the case with Mercury/Budha, perhaps an indication of reduced intellect. This in combination with 7th lord Saturn/Shani-dev strongly placed in his Swasthana in the 7th house and forming a strong Sasa Maha-Purusha Yoga has perhaps given you a bit of carefree attitude.

Your husband has anger/temper issues, with a bit of a weak mind. You see Moon/Chandra being placed in the 8th house of Ashtama-Sthana and current Maha-Dasha is that of Moon/Chandra. Further, he has just started Sade-Sathi or Saturn/Shani-dev’s transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra. Lagna & 10th lord Mercury/Budha being placed in the 12th house is perhaps an indication of challenges at workplace. Lastly, Ketu being active and having a strong influence in making him feel detached cannot be denied.

All said and done, I’m inclined to think he says things in the spurt of the moment out of anger or frustration and hopefully does not mean it. Given the situation, it would perhaps make sense for you guys to offer special prayers to Lord Ganesh on a daily basis, with unwavering faith, bhakti/devotion and a strong Sankalpa.

PS: Please let me/us know where you reside, purely our of academic interest.

Take care…

Thanks for your insight on our relationship. Do you think with time our relationship will become any better. @Buddy we are in Maryland USA.

Hi,

Appreciate you confirming my understanding of you guys currently residing outside India… was a bit obvious from (both of) your birth-charts.

As for your follow-up query, I’m inclined to think your relationship will get better as you age, understand each other and mature  (both individually as humans and together as a couple), in spite of challenges (which will pop-up at different times, in different ways).

Over and beyond whatever has been shared earlier, it would make sense for you guys to consider managing the monkey (mind) in you. It would help for both of you to practice Yogasana, Pranayama and Meditation.

Take care…

Thank you all. Very grateful for giving me your valuable time.