Let’s be entirely clear: **Guna Milan (the 36 points system) in isolation is one of the most overused and misunderstood metrics in modern astrology.** Scoring 12 out of 36 does *not* mean a relationship is doomed, just as a 29 out of 36 score does not guarantee a happy life as you’ve already experienced firsthand through your own dating history. Real compatibility is seen through deep chart mechanics, Lagna alignment, and emotional maturity, not a simple points tally. If there is genuine mutual respect, emotional alignment, and he truly recognizes your worth, do not let a generic point system or fear-mongering push you away from a meaningful connection.
Regarding the Manglik factor, since you are already self-aware of it, treat it simply as a behavioral blueprint rather than a curse. Manglik dynamics usually manifest as high energy, intense drive, and occasional behavioral friction it is completely manageable once you learn to handle high-stress moments with conscious patience and ease. Furthermore, your Moolank 3 (Jupiter governs wisdom, guidance) and his Moolank 9 (Mars action, drive) actually create a complementary dynamic where vision meets action.
The only area requiring cold, hard realism is his financial situation. Financial strain adds real-world pressure to any relationship, so instead of stressing over a 12/36 score, evaluate his work ethic, his long-term trajectory, and whether he has the Saturnian discipline to build stability over time. Do not ruin a beautiful, genuinely compatible connection over automated Guna Milan scores take the risk with open eyes, manage your behavioral dynamics with maturity, and trust lived compatibility over an online calculator every single time.

Hi,

In my humble opinion, the gentleman is also a Manglik…more importantly, seems have a anger/temper issue and perhaps to the extent of not being himself, whenever he gets triggered. Further, he is slowly inching towards the fag-end of a not so pleasant Rahu Maha-Dasha. So, he probably has little to be proud of in terms of accomplishments in the last 13 years – to mention Moon/Chandra his 2nd lord of Wealth Accumulation and Family Expansion being uncomfortably placed in the 8th house of Ashtama-Sthana. I’m also inclined to think he has had challenges with stable work/career… and a strong Pitru Dosha is not helping his cause.

All said and done, it looks like you have your own fair share of afflictions too. Given the situation, all I’d suggest is that you take a well-informed decision without jumping to conclusion in haste.

PS: It looks like he has the possibility of falling in love and the relationship materializing into something meaningful. I don’t seem to see the same in your birth-chart. So, your case seems to be more of convenience. As always, feel free to ignore that is not to your taste or liking.

Take care…

Thanks Team,

Thanks Shukra and buddy.

Buddy, it is not convincce for me because despite so many odds, he gives me the calm and makes me healthy with my thoughts

His commitment makes me so strong that he feels lke a family.

As you mentioned to review and see… does our planets have required strength…our planets wont affect each other’s health or life right? Will will be compatible and commit3d ?

Hi,

Request you to not take my choice of word out of context. All I was trying to highlight was the male chart has Yogas for falling in love and the same materializing. In your case though, the same aspect seemed to be missing.

In some cases, Rahu’s mesmerizing influence induces infatuation… did not observe that either. Hence, the usage of that word.

Take care…

So buddy, my chart doesn’t show love or something materialize to happiness… I dont have good relationship yoga? What do my charts show in terms of marriage? Will I not be blessed to marry?

Hi Buddy,
My charts dont show marriages yoga or connection turning to marriage? Am i not blessed with marriage? I am turning 34 this year

Hi,

Marriage is delayed – it is quite obvious. But then, the good thing is that it’s not completely denied. And, I’ve not mentioned anything about you not having marriage yogas or being marriage being denied. Have I?  So, I’m not quite sure I understand your repeated queries…

That said, it looks like you are a bit of tentative individual, who has less courage/confidence in her own abilities. Thereafter, please be informed your 2nd lord of Wealth Accumulation and Family Expansion is conjunct 12th lord of Vyaya/Losses – not to mention the 10th lord Mars/Kuja being placed in the 12th house. So, please be aware and take well thought of and informed decision.

Take care…

Thereafter, please be informed your 2nd lord of Wealth Accumulation and Family Expansion is conjunct 12th lord of Vyaya/Losses – not to mention the 10th lord Mars/Kuja being placed in the 12th house

Means?

Hi,

They are indications of potentially more expenses and possibly financial challenges later… down the line.

Take care…

Oh! By the way…being friends or companions and dating (meeting, going out, being with each other without frills etc.) is very different from being married (tied together legally, sharing time, space, bodies etc.). Individuals recognize the real traits of their spouse, only after they get tied with each other and become a couple.

Take care…